Information for Family and Friends of those effected by Domestic Violence   

What are some warning signs?

• Your friend or family member has become isolated or appears to be avoiding you
• Your family member or friend expresses fear or concern 
• Your family member or friend wears unusual or unseasonal clothes (long sleeves in high temperatures)
• Your family member or friend appears different than they normally are. Perhaps they appear depressed, quiet, body language has changed
• Your family or friend makes plans that are never fulfilled
• Your family or friend always has to get approval from their partner
• Unexplaned or frequent hospital visits or injuries 

Why people stay with their abusers?

• Economic dependence
• Fear of retribution
• Fear of emotional damage to children
• Fear of losing custody of children
• Nowhere to go
• No job skills
• Fear of social isolation from family or friends
• Fear of court processes
• Cultural or religious conflicts
• Fear of loneliness
• Insecurity about the future
• Guilt about failure of marriage
• Fear that abuser cannot survive alone
• Belief that abuser will change
• Fear of making major life changes

How can I help? 

• Call SAFE for ideas on how to approach the subject 885-7233
• Be patient and aware thatt they may be afraid for their safety
• Help set up a safety plan
• Be there for when (if) they are ready to make a change.

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